In fifty-seventh, the 58 phase of training -- the Enneagram
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Enneagram] According to legend, originated in the Middle East, is said to be two thousand years ago, the Indian Sufi devotional programs, word of mouth theory, but actually from when and where not known.
In the 1920s, one of the mystics and spiritual teachers it spread to Europe, has been circulated to the secret teaching methods. Publicly in Chile until the 1960s, held a spiritualpsychological Training Course before they opened the mystery of the Enneagram theory "of this learning. The 1970s, "Enneagram" formal incoming United States, this ancient smart is simple, accurate and profound, it actually coincides with the modern discourse of personality, caused widespread concern, Stanford University took the lead in 1993 was officially launched courses.
The first type: the perfect type (Reformer / Perfectionist) [perfectionist][Desire qualities: the pursuit of continuous improvement
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if I do not perfect, no one will love me.〗 〖Main characteristics: in principle, difficult to compromise, often say "should" and "SHOULD NOT", black and white, demanding of themselves and others, the pursuit of perfection, continuous improvement, weak feeling in the world; hope that everything is done to perfection, want themselves or the world is more progressive. Always reflect on his mistakes, and also to correct someone else's fault.
〗 〖Main characteristics: patience, perseverance, promises, consistent, loving home Gu, lawabiding and influential leaders, like control, open and aboveboard.
〗 〖Lifestyle: love exhorted to teach, to avoid the expression of anger, I believe they have much to do every day.
[Interpersonal]:
Typical perfectionist, which was easily understood. Everything pursuit of perfection rarely speak the words of praise, often only criticism, whether it is on their own, or on the side of people is also And because of your own high standards, give yourself a lot of pressure, would be very difficult to relax to enjoy the play, smile and laugh!
The 〖anger, discontent〗
Belong to the first type, I believe that often this feeling. Often anger, feeling of discontent from the high life. Encounter ring true meaning, it is easy to feel tease anger, resentment, think things should not have happened ... this sentiment is not only right, as well as on the surrounding environment and people, is the same, because they with high requirements. But be careful, as his friends, to bear his tease angry mood, and certainly not easy, can also cause stress, so pay attention!
〖Disappointment, frustration〗
Also because everything pursuit of the perfect attitude, so that they hit a snag in life often feel, unhappy. In addition to the external vent anger, in fact, in the heart continue to experience defeat, continue to experience disappointment. These emotions is not healthy for them, we must actively. The most fundamental method is not that you are doing better, but to adjust the view of every situation in every thing, easy to face!
Basic fear of 〖〗: fear of their own mistakes, deterioration, corruption
〗 Of 〖basic desire: I hope he is right, good, chastity, integrity
Type: full of love type, to help others type (Helper / Giver) [giver】
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of service to be
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if I do not help people, no one will love me.
〖Main characteristics〗: desire for someone else's love or a good relationship and are willing to accommodate others, people-oriented, to be others that need their own, often ignore their own; very concerned about other people's feelings and need, very enthusiastic, willing to pay a love for others, see others meet accept their love will feel worth living.
〗 〖Main characteristics: a mild and friendly, easy-going, never directly express the need to tactfully subtle, good Mr / Ms, generosity, charity
〗 〖Life style: Love report facts and avoid being to help busy helping others, deny the problem exists.
[Interpersonal]:
Helping type (helper) the name suggests, he likes to help people, and take the initiative and generosity! Although he is very keen to the needs of others, but often ignore their own needs. Him to meet the needs of others is more important than to meet their own needs, so he rarely made the request. In saying so, he is not strong, and often * to help others to confirm their
〖Proud, proud〗
The second type, feel that this describes very aptly? Very surprised? In fact, has been performed to help others of happiness, he is helping to confirm their friend accepted to enjoy themselves. So when a friend to them for help, he is naturally delighted, there will be a pride and a sense of pride, because in the process of recognition and satisfaction.
〖Possession, control〗
Is to help people get so much satisfaction, they want to continue this relationship continues, this is normal! However, when their "investment" under the more time and effort, he hopes more reward. Most likely, they would very much hope that friends will "attach", or even just "attach" a everything said to him, to share with him. This is reflected in the possessive of his heart, if so, friends of non-so he will be very disappointed, I feel they betrayed him. Or even, he might be that they exert pressure to control them. Here is not to say each of the second type are so, but the poor of our state, the mood is not very good, did have a chance to appear above tendency. Multi-point to pay attention to their emotional reactions, help to control and improve!
Basic fear of 〖〗: unloved, not needed
Basic desire of 〖〗: the existence of feelings of love
Type III: type of achievement (Achiever / Motivator) [doers]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of results
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: I do not have success, no one will love me.
〗 〖Main characteristics: a strong ambition, like to recognize the prestige, often with others, to the achievement measure the value of the level of focus image, workaholic, afraid to express feelings; hoping to get everyone's affirmation. Is a careerist, and constantly in pursuit of effective, different, subject to the attention of others, envy, being in the limelight.
〗 〖Main characteristics: self-confident, energetic, and humorous, full of certainty, life skills sleek, aggressive, beautiful image
The 〖life style]: love number said that their own achievements, to avoid failure, according to long-term goal for a living.
[Interpersonal]:
Achievement type (Achiever), he is energetic, always extraordinary power, because he has a strong competitiveness in the desire! He likes the challenge, the will of his own values and achievements in a line. Achievement type, he will whole-heartedly to the pursuit of a goal, because he believed that "There is no impossible." Motivated him to do the best leader to lead others!
The 〖narcissism, to show off〗
The third type of people tend to see themselves become large and quite important, so a little bit of narcissism, self-expansion. They will be his best side to a friend to see, even extreme, it will lie in front of friends, in order to "maintain" their own image in the eyes of friends water. In many cases, the third type of real strength is often not so strong, because their expression there is a slight exaggeration.
〖Afraid of intimacy〗
The third type, he was afraid of intimacy, not to say that they will no friends, only when the relationship into a deep, he may be afraid of true colors be seen to avoid, escape. Therefore, the close / good friend of the relationship between type III that is not easy to build because they are afraid to see their true colors, and therefore difficult to open and frank exchanges. The third type of Victory heart quite often that he could not in front of friends "known bad", so will show the great great, but the world no one is perfect, perfect! Be able to allow its true colors as the man, his life will be very happy!
〗 Of 〖basic fear: there is no achievement, nothing
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to feel valued, accepted
Type IV: Artistic self-type (Artist / Individualist) [tragic romantic who]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of unique
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if it is unique, no one will love me.
〖〗 Main characteristics: emotional, the pursuit of romance, fear of being rejected, feel that others do not understand the strong possessive style of its own way of life: love to talk about unhappy things, easy to depression, jealousy and pursuit of the quality of life to feel better; very jealous of their the love and affection, I would like to properly nourish them, and the most beautiful, the most special way to express. They want to create a unique and distinctive image and works, and constantly self-aware, self-reflection and self-exploration.
〗 〖Main characteristics: vulnerability to emotional impact, the tendency to pursue unusual, artistic and meaningful things, and more fantasy that death, suffering, tragedy is valuable and real life, a keen aesthetic can be found in unique clothing , and the taste of the layout of the environment to show his unique, highly creative, overly emotional, easily upset or depressed often feel that life is a tragedy, aloof people, fear of intimate relationships people find themselves not perfect will be away from him.
〗 〖Life style: love to talk about unhappy things, easy to depression, jealousy, life search for feeling good.
[Interpersonal]:
Type (Individualist) Has someone told him he had the temper of the artist? This self type Jiuzheng is the character of the artist - sentimental and imaginative, and would often indulge in the world of the imagination. On the other hand, because of his feelings led some work Well "LIKE" the might Wuzuojiala will not consider the issue of liability.
[Jealousy, comparison〗
Self-they actually have a little artist temper, right! Self-pity, to feel with others, like to indulge in their own world of imagination ... In many cases, the fourth type of performance will be pulled out, because with people around feel different, other people will not understand think other people have a lot of things they did not so difficult to meet the reality of their social circle.
[Self-indulging, self-pity〗
From real life are not met, the self-friends will be in the fantasy construct their own world, create some moody environment, so that their emotions can be vented out. However, this way, the self-seemed more emotional, causing others not to understand that they, more isolated. So they must be careful not to let too much out of line ah!
Basic fear of 〖〗: there is no unique self-feelings or the meaning of existence
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to find themselves, including the experience to find self-identity
Type: intelligent, thinking type (Thinker / Observer) [observers]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of knowledge
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: If I have no knowledge, no one will love me.
〗 〖The main features: 冷眼看世界, detached emotion, like thinking and analysis, to know a lot, but the lack of action, do not ask for material life, like spiritual life, poor expression of feelings; want to by more knowledge, understanding of the environment, in the face of things around. They want to find out what the context and principles, as the criteria for action. With the knowledge that they dare to action, but also will have a sense of security.
〗 Of 〖main characteristics: courtly, learned, coherent expression of subtle, clumsy word order, within the silence, apathy and alienation, lack of vigor, slow response
〗 〖Life style: Love observation, criticism, his own pulled out of a day's worth of books.
[Interpersonal]:
Rational type (Thinker) he is a very calm person, everything and everyone always want to keep some distance, and not let emotions. In many cases, he will do first spectator, before they can be involved in the In addition, he also needs adequate private space and a high degree of privacy, otherwise he will feel very anxious, unstable! He has a good chance to be an expert, such as computer!, Comics, fashion, because his knowledge is very loving!
The 〖well identified, pulled〗
Thinking type of person often observe the things around you, little involvement of sentiment. Also, they are well identified, very persistent, but few distinguish the input space and measure. The persistence of knowledge is certainly important, but the experience of life, the resulting experience is very valuable, and hope that they will strike a balance, get up to!
〗 Of 〖basic fear: incompetence, ignorance,
〗 Of 〖basic desire: competent, knowledgeable
VI: loyalty type (Team Player / Loyalist) [skeptics]
Characteristics of [the desire]: the pursuit of faithful
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: I fail to obey, no one will love me.
〖〗 Of the main features: things to be careful, do not trust others easily, and many concerns, like group life, dedicated to doing things for others, do not like the subject of watching, the status quo, and do not like to change to a new environment; trust the authorities, to follow the guidance of authority The act, however the other hand, anti-authority, character full of contradictions. Their strong sense of community requires a sense of intimacy, need to be loved, accepted and safe protection.
〗 〖Main qualities: loyalty, alert, careful, witty, pragmatic, compliance, self-discipline to maintain those.
〗 Of 〖lifestyle: love the calm discussion, fear of authority, tradition to give a sense of security, fear of achievement, to evade the issue.
[Interpersonal]:
Loyalty, (Loyalist), he would be a good employee, because he is very loyal to their duties. Sense of security is very important, because when faced with new people and things, will make his fear, feelings of discomfort. Based on this fear, anxiety, and everything he would for the worst, in other words, He was more pessimistic, but also easier to escape trouble.
〖Fear, anxiety, hesitation〗
Loyalty, they have loyalty because they are afraid, are worried about many things, many intend to harm, so the man is very cautious. For the same reason, afraid of wrong decisions, so when faced with decisions, most of them seem very hesitant heart but cautious. Appropriate concern to protect us, but excessive worry will hinder our progress! Pay attention to pay attention!
〖Basic fear]: lack of support and guidance alone their own ability to not take into account all
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to get support and a sense of security
Type VII: active type, cheerful type (Enthusiast) [hedonist]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of happiness
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: I fail to bring joy, no one will love me.
〗 〖Main characteristics: optimistic, to be fresh to catch up with the trend, do not like the pressure, fear of negative emotions; thought of a happy life, who wants to innovate, to entertain themselves, and desire more to enjoy life, the world's not OK come to naught. They like a happy input experience and mood of the world, so they always try to find happiness, happy experience.
〖〗 Main characteristics: a happy enthusiastic, non-stop activities, access to non-stop, for fear serious, versatile, very familiar with will also spend the energy to study, at any cost as long as the happy fun things, the subject of ridicule on people thing.
The 〖life style]: love to talk about their own experience, like to create happy life too many fun things waiting for him.
[Interpersonal]:
Active type (Adventurer) active type, he is kind: optimistic, energetic, charming, good, fresh corruption, spent six five o'clock change ...... "the most critical to have fun" is his philosophy of life! They need to live fresh, so do not like to be tied to be controlled. His vitality is the vitality of play, have any connection with the achievement of the third type of type, believe that their activities stir hand, play very Well tired!
〖Impatient, impulsive, addictive〗
Fun, the type of hedonism, the first line of active, doing things the lack of patience, because they are afraid of boring. Impatient apart, but also very easy to act on impulse, because of the friends of the seventh type of things fresh and well-planned, it stresses that is, to celebrate, want to just do it! But they must be careful, even if there are a fad, he was very interested in, they have to learn not to indulge in down! (Smoking, drug addiction, gambling addiction, etc.)
〖Basic fear]: exploitation, trapped in the pain
〗 〖Basic desire: the pursuit of happiness, satisfaction, best of luck to do so
Eighth type: type of leader, the ability to type (Leader) [protector]
Characteristics of [the desire]: the pursuit of power
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: If I do not have power, no one will love me.
〖〗 Of the main features: the pursuit of power, emphasis on strength, do not rely on others, a sense of justice to say, like to do great things; absolute doer, an encounter problems they will immediately take action to solve. Want to be independent, stand on its own in accordance with their ability to do things, to build at the first destruction, and to lead to fair, and justice.
〗 〖Main characteristics: aggressive, self-centered, cowardly contempt, respect for the strongman for the oppressed to come forward and impulsive, they were dissatisfied with-the-spot attack, subjective and intuitive.
The 〖life style]: love command, speak loudly, awesome, revenge, love debate, and rely on the will to take charge of life.
[Interpersonal]:
Many leaders of the Leaders (Leader) has the following characteristics: forthright, sloppy, arrogant, the stronger the case of strong, caring, justice, equity. They are clear about their goals, and forge ahead. Due to a reluctance to be controlled, and a certain degree of dominance, so great potential leaders to lead us. Because they are good wins, and sometimes would be a bit aggressive, people feel pressure.
The 〖aggression, challenge, rebel〗
Eighth type is usually who is also the capacity of the leaders have the power to discretionary arrangements can command others. Because of their power, sometimes to the people a sense of aggression, and this is his own power source, he is very competitiveness and the desire to control, but be careful to use, do not use it to hurt others! In addition, he specifically challenge to the difficulty and norms, that is, "are aware of the tiger in favor of a difficult path" wayward. So it is possible, the mother told him not to do something, he not listen; teacher asked him to learn his partial play silly ... he will be like this? If true, would be beneficial to him?
〖〗 With basic fears: being perceived as weak, hurt, control, violations
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to decide the way of life, to defend their own interests, do strong
Ninth type: type of peace, harmony type (Peacemaker) [mediator]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of peace
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if I do not good, no one will love me.
〗 〖The main features: to spend a long time to make decisions, difficult to refuse others do not understand the give vent to their anger; it is very mild and do not like conflict, does not boast, not pushy, weak personality. Want to get along in harmony and human, to avoid all conflict and tension, hope that things can maintain better status quo. Neglect to make the unpleasant things, and as far as possible to maintain a smooth, quiet.
〗 〖Main characteristics: a mild and friendly, patient, easygoing, afraid of competition, inability to concentrate, and sometimes like sleepwalking, less than the last minute will not be completed, heavily dependent upon a reminder of others, focus on details, minor things do not have much interest in most things, do not like to be dominated by no means a direct expression of dissatisfaction, but a double face.
〗 〖Life style: love to reconcile things slow, easy, lazy, suppressed, pursuit of comfortable living.
[Interpersonal]:
Peaceful type (Peacemaker) In many cases, they are messengers of peace, understanding, easygoing. They are easy to understand others, is not too clear what you want will appear indecisive. Relatively speaking, their minds will be relatively small, with the arrangements of other people would rather do a good supporter, so he is the more passive in the heart.
〖Shy, timid, lazy〗
Peace and type the madding crowd, eager to everyone to live together in peace, afraid of the cause of conflict, is inconspicuous. Never tried to highlight their own, they would be more shy, timid, and very easy lazy in the desire, because he loved peace, and not hard work, so he will not PUSH! If he thought to do something big, they should take to spur their own!
[Fear]: change with pressure, loss of balance
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to maintain inner peace and a stable
In the 1920s, one of the mystics and spiritual teachers it spread to Europe, has been circulated to the secret teaching methods. Publicly in Chile until the 1960s, held a spiritualpsychological Training Course before they opened the mystery of the Enneagram theory "of this learning. The 1970s, "Enneagram" formal incoming United States, this ancient smart is simple, accurate and profound, it actually coincides with the modern discourse of personality, caused widespread concern, Stanford University took the lead in 1993 was officially launched courses.
The first type: the perfect type (Reformer / Perfectionist) [perfectionist][Desire qualities: the pursuit of continuous improvement
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if I do not perfect, no one will love me.〗 〖Main characteristics: in principle, difficult to compromise, often say "should" and "SHOULD NOT", black and white, demanding of themselves and others, the pursuit of perfection, continuous improvement, weak feeling in the world; hope that everything is done to perfection, want themselves or the world is more progressive. Always reflect on his mistakes, and also to correct someone else's fault.
〗 〖Main characteristics: patience, perseverance, promises, consistent, loving home Gu, lawabiding and influential leaders, like control, open and aboveboard.
〗 〖Lifestyle: love exhorted to teach, to avoid the expression of anger, I believe they have much to do every day.
[Interpersonal]:
Typical perfectionist, which was easily understood. Everything pursuit of perfection rarely speak the words of praise, often only criticism, whether it is on their own, or on the side of people is also And because of your own high standards, give yourself a lot of pressure, would be very difficult to relax to enjoy the play, smile and laugh!
The 〖anger, discontent〗
Belong to the first type, I believe that often this feeling. Often anger, feeling of discontent from the high life. Encounter ring true meaning, it is easy to feel tease anger, resentment, think things should not have happened ... this sentiment is not only right, as well as on the surrounding environment and people, is the same, because they with high requirements. But be careful, as his friends, to bear his tease angry mood, and certainly not easy, can also cause stress, so pay attention!
〖Disappointment, frustration〗
Also because everything pursuit of the perfect attitude, so that they hit a snag in life often feel, unhappy. In addition to the external vent anger, in fact, in the heart continue to experience defeat, continue to experience disappointment. These emotions is not healthy for them, we must actively. The most fundamental method is not that you are doing better, but to adjust the view of every situation in every thing, easy to face!
Basic fear of 〖〗: fear of their own mistakes, deterioration, corruption
〗 Of 〖basic desire: I hope he is right, good, chastity, integrity
Type: full of love type, to help others type (Helper / Giver) [giver】
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of service to be
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if I do not help people, no one will love me.
〖Main characteristics〗: desire for someone else's love or a good relationship and are willing to accommodate others, people-oriented, to be others that need their own, often ignore their own; very concerned about other people's feelings and need, very enthusiastic, willing to pay a love for others, see others meet accept their love will feel worth living.
〗 〖Main characteristics: a mild and friendly, easy-going, never directly express the need to tactfully subtle, good Mr / Ms, generosity, charity
〗 〖Life style: Love report facts and avoid being to help busy helping others, deny the problem exists.
[Interpersonal]:
Helping type (helper) the name suggests, he likes to help people, and take the initiative and generosity! Although he is very keen to the needs of others, but often ignore their own needs. Him to meet the needs of others is more important than to meet their own needs, so he rarely made the request. In saying so, he is not strong, and often * to help others to confirm their
〖Proud, proud〗
The second type, feel that this describes very aptly? Very surprised? In fact, has been performed to help others of happiness, he is helping to confirm their friend accepted to enjoy themselves. So when a friend to them for help, he is naturally delighted, there will be a pride and a sense of pride, because in the process of recognition and satisfaction.
〖Possession, control〗
Is to help people get so much satisfaction, they want to continue this relationship continues, this is normal! However, when their "investment" under the more time and effort, he hopes more reward. Most likely, they would very much hope that friends will "attach", or even just "attach" a everything said to him, to share with him. This is reflected in the possessive of his heart, if so, friends of non-so he will be very disappointed, I feel they betrayed him. Or even, he might be that they exert pressure to control them. Here is not to say each of the second type are so, but the poor of our state, the mood is not very good, did have a chance to appear above tendency. Multi-point to pay attention to their emotional reactions, help to control and improve!
Basic fear of 〖〗: unloved, not needed
Basic desire of 〖〗: the existence of feelings of love
Type III: type of achievement (Achiever / Motivator) [doers]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of results
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: I do not have success, no one will love me.
〗 〖Main characteristics: a strong ambition, like to recognize the prestige, often with others, to the achievement measure the value of the level of focus image, workaholic, afraid to express feelings; hoping to get everyone's affirmation. Is a careerist, and constantly in pursuit of effective, different, subject to the attention of others, envy, being in the limelight.
〗 〖Main characteristics: self-confident, energetic, and humorous, full of certainty, life skills sleek, aggressive, beautiful image
The 〖life style]: love number said that their own achievements, to avoid failure, according to long-term goal for a living.
[Interpersonal]:
Achievement type (Achiever), he is energetic, always extraordinary power, because he has a strong competitiveness in the desire! He likes the challenge, the will of his own values and achievements in a line. Achievement type, he will whole-heartedly to the pursuit of a goal, because he believed that "There is no impossible." Motivated him to do the best leader to lead others!
The 〖narcissism, to show off〗
The third type of people tend to see themselves become large and quite important, so a little bit of narcissism, self-expansion. They will be his best side to a friend to see, even extreme, it will lie in front of friends, in order to "maintain" their own image in the eyes of friends water. In many cases, the third type of real strength is often not so strong, because their expression there is a slight exaggeration.
〖Afraid of intimacy〗
The third type, he was afraid of intimacy, not to say that they will no friends, only when the relationship into a deep, he may be afraid of true colors be seen to avoid, escape. Therefore, the close / good friend of the relationship between type III that is not easy to build because they are afraid to see their true colors, and therefore difficult to open and frank exchanges. The third type of Victory heart quite often that he could not in front of friends "known bad", so will show the great great, but the world no one is perfect, perfect! Be able to allow its true colors as the man, his life will be very happy!
〗 Of 〖basic fear: there is no achievement, nothing
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to feel valued, accepted
Type IV: Artistic self-type (Artist / Individualist) [tragic romantic who]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of unique
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if it is unique, no one will love me.
〖〗 Main characteristics: emotional, the pursuit of romance, fear of being rejected, feel that others do not understand the strong possessive style of its own way of life: love to talk about unhappy things, easy to depression, jealousy and pursuit of the quality of life to feel better; very jealous of their the love and affection, I would like to properly nourish them, and the most beautiful, the most special way to express. They want to create a unique and distinctive image and works, and constantly self-aware, self-reflection and self-exploration.
〗 〖Main characteristics: vulnerability to emotional impact, the tendency to pursue unusual, artistic and meaningful things, and more fantasy that death, suffering, tragedy is valuable and real life, a keen aesthetic can be found in unique clothing , and the taste of the layout of the environment to show his unique, highly creative, overly emotional, easily upset or depressed often feel that life is a tragedy, aloof people, fear of intimate relationships people find themselves not perfect will be away from him.
〗 〖Life style: love to talk about unhappy things, easy to depression, jealousy, life search for feeling good.
[Interpersonal]:
Type (Individualist) Has someone told him he had the temper of the artist? This self type Jiuzheng is the character of the artist - sentimental and imaginative, and would often indulge in the world of the imagination. On the other hand, because of his feelings led some work Well "LIKE" the might Wuzuojiala will not consider the issue of liability.
[Jealousy, comparison〗
Self-they actually have a little artist temper, right! Self-pity, to feel with others, like to indulge in their own world of imagination ... In many cases, the fourth type of performance will be pulled out, because with people around feel different, other people will not understand think other people have a lot of things they did not so difficult to meet the reality of their social circle.
[Self-indulging, self-pity〗
From real life are not met, the self-friends will be in the fantasy construct their own world, create some moody environment, so that their emotions can be vented out. However, this way, the self-seemed more emotional, causing others not to understand that they, more isolated. So they must be careful not to let too much out of line ah!
Basic fear of 〖〗: there is no unique self-feelings or the meaning of existence
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to find themselves, including the experience to find self-identity
Type: intelligent, thinking type (Thinker / Observer) [observers]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of knowledge
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: If I have no knowledge, no one will love me.
〗 〖The main features: 冷眼看世界, detached emotion, like thinking and analysis, to know a lot, but the lack of action, do not ask for material life, like spiritual life, poor expression of feelings; want to by more knowledge, understanding of the environment, in the face of things around. They want to find out what the context and principles, as the criteria for action. With the knowledge that they dare to action, but also will have a sense of security.
〗 Of 〖main characteristics: courtly, learned, coherent expression of subtle, clumsy word order, within the silence, apathy and alienation, lack of vigor, slow response
〗 〖Life style: Love observation, criticism, his own pulled out of a day's worth of books.
[Interpersonal]:
Rational type (Thinker) he is a very calm person, everything and everyone always want to keep some distance, and not let emotions. In many cases, he will do first spectator, before they can be involved in the In addition, he also needs adequate private space and a high degree of privacy, otherwise he will feel very anxious, unstable! He has a good chance to be an expert, such as computer!, Comics, fashion, because his knowledge is very loving!
The 〖well identified, pulled〗
Thinking type of person often observe the things around you, little involvement of sentiment. Also, they are well identified, very persistent, but few distinguish the input space and measure. The persistence of knowledge is certainly important, but the experience of life, the resulting experience is very valuable, and hope that they will strike a balance, get up to!
〗 Of 〖basic fear: incompetence, ignorance,
〗 Of 〖basic desire: competent, knowledgeable
VI: loyalty type (Team Player / Loyalist) [skeptics]
Characteristics of [the desire]: the pursuit of faithful
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: I fail to obey, no one will love me.
〖〗 Of the main features: things to be careful, do not trust others easily, and many concerns, like group life, dedicated to doing things for others, do not like the subject of watching, the status quo, and do not like to change to a new environment; trust the authorities, to follow the guidance of authority The act, however the other hand, anti-authority, character full of contradictions. Their strong sense of community requires a sense of intimacy, need to be loved, accepted and safe protection.
〗 〖Main qualities: loyalty, alert, careful, witty, pragmatic, compliance, self-discipline to maintain those.
〗 Of 〖lifestyle: love the calm discussion, fear of authority, tradition to give a sense of security, fear of achievement, to evade the issue.
[Interpersonal]:
Loyalty, (Loyalist), he would be a good employee, because he is very loyal to their duties. Sense of security is very important, because when faced with new people and things, will make his fear, feelings of discomfort. Based on this fear, anxiety, and everything he would for the worst, in other words, He was more pessimistic, but also easier to escape trouble.
〖Fear, anxiety, hesitation〗
Loyalty, they have loyalty because they are afraid, are worried about many things, many intend to harm, so the man is very cautious. For the same reason, afraid of wrong decisions, so when faced with decisions, most of them seem very hesitant heart but cautious. Appropriate concern to protect us, but excessive worry will hinder our progress! Pay attention to pay attention!
〖Basic fear]: lack of support and guidance alone their own ability to not take into account all
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to get support and a sense of security
Type VII: active type, cheerful type (Enthusiast) [hedonist]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of happiness
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: I fail to bring joy, no one will love me.
〗 〖Main characteristics: optimistic, to be fresh to catch up with the trend, do not like the pressure, fear of negative emotions; thought of a happy life, who wants to innovate, to entertain themselves, and desire more to enjoy life, the world's not OK come to naught. They like a happy input experience and mood of the world, so they always try to find happiness, happy experience.
〖〗 Main characteristics: a happy enthusiastic, non-stop activities, access to non-stop, for fear serious, versatile, very familiar with will also spend the energy to study, at any cost as long as the happy fun things, the subject of ridicule on people thing.
The 〖life style]: love to talk about their own experience, like to create happy life too many fun things waiting for him.
[Interpersonal]:
Active type (Adventurer) active type, he is kind: optimistic, energetic, charming, good, fresh corruption, spent six five o'clock change ...... "the most critical to have fun" is his philosophy of life! They need to live fresh, so do not like to be tied to be controlled. His vitality is the vitality of play, have any connection with the achievement of the third type of type, believe that their activities stir hand, play very Well tired!
〖Impatient, impulsive, addictive〗
Fun, the type of hedonism, the first line of active, doing things the lack of patience, because they are afraid of boring. Impatient apart, but also very easy to act on impulse, because of the friends of the seventh type of things fresh and well-planned, it stresses that is, to celebrate, want to just do it! But they must be careful, even if there are a fad, he was very interested in, they have to learn not to indulge in down! (Smoking, drug addiction, gambling addiction, etc.)
〖Basic fear]: exploitation, trapped in the pain
〗 〖Basic desire: the pursuit of happiness, satisfaction, best of luck to do so
Eighth type: type of leader, the ability to type (Leader) [protector]
Characteristics of [the desire]: the pursuit of power
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: If I do not have power, no one will love me.
〖〗 Of the main features: the pursuit of power, emphasis on strength, do not rely on others, a sense of justice to say, like to do great things; absolute doer, an encounter problems they will immediately take action to solve. Want to be independent, stand on its own in accordance with their ability to do things, to build at the first destruction, and to lead to fair, and justice.
〗 〖Main characteristics: aggressive, self-centered, cowardly contempt, respect for the strongman for the oppressed to come forward and impulsive, they were dissatisfied with-the-spot attack, subjective and intuitive.
The 〖life style]: love command, speak loudly, awesome, revenge, love debate, and rely on the will to take charge of life.
[Interpersonal]:
Many leaders of the Leaders (Leader) has the following characteristics: forthright, sloppy, arrogant, the stronger the case of strong, caring, justice, equity. They are clear about their goals, and forge ahead. Due to a reluctance to be controlled, and a certain degree of dominance, so great potential leaders to lead us. Because they are good wins, and sometimes would be a bit aggressive, people feel pressure.
The 〖aggression, challenge, rebel〗
Eighth type is usually who is also the capacity of the leaders have the power to discretionary arrangements can command others. Because of their power, sometimes to the people a sense of aggression, and this is his own power source, he is very competitiveness and the desire to control, but be careful to use, do not use it to hurt others! In addition, he specifically challenge to the difficulty and norms, that is, "are aware of the tiger in favor of a difficult path" wayward. So it is possible, the mother told him not to do something, he not listen; teacher asked him to learn his partial play silly ... he will be like this? If true, would be beneficial to him?
〖〗 With basic fears: being perceived as weak, hurt, control, violations
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to decide the way of life, to defend their own interests, do strong
Ninth type: type of peace, harmony type (Peacemaker) [mediator]
[Desire qualities: the pursuit of peace
〖Basic sleepy thinking]: if I do not good, no one will love me.
〗 〖The main features: to spend a long time to make decisions, difficult to refuse others do not understand the give vent to their anger; it is very mild and do not like conflict, does not boast, not pushy, weak personality. Want to get along in harmony and human, to avoid all conflict and tension, hope that things can maintain better status quo. Neglect to make the unpleasant things, and as far as possible to maintain a smooth, quiet.
〗 〖Main characteristics: a mild and friendly, patient, easygoing, afraid of competition, inability to concentrate, and sometimes like sleepwalking, less than the last minute will not be completed, heavily dependent upon a reminder of others, focus on details, minor things do not have much interest in most things, do not like to be dominated by no means a direct expression of dissatisfaction, but a double face.
〗 〖Life style: love to reconcile things slow, easy, lazy, suppressed, pursuit of comfortable living.
[Interpersonal]:
Peaceful type (Peacemaker) In many cases, they are messengers of peace, understanding, easygoing. They are easy to understand others, is not too clear what you want will appear indecisive. Relatively speaking, their minds will be relatively small, with the arrangements of other people would rather do a good supporter, so he is the more passive in the heart.
〖Shy, timid, lazy〗
Peace and type the madding crowd, eager to everyone to live together in peace, afraid of the cause of conflict, is inconspicuous. Never tried to highlight their own, they would be more shy, timid, and very easy lazy in the desire, because he loved peace, and not hard work, so he will not PUSH! If he thought to do something big, they should take to spur their own!
[Fear]: change with pressure, loss of balance
〗 Of 〖basic desire: to maintain inner peace and a stable
